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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 02:47

How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

This is a real question: Why do a lot of men/boys hate (yes, hate) women that voice their criteria in choosing a partner? Even when the criteria is sane and responsible. Besides it being, sadly, an effective mating strategy, why does it exist?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What do most wives fantasize about?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What I need from you?

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Homophobia is clearly a harmful mental sickness. What can LGBT people do to cure it?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

When did you realize that your childhood was not normal?

Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why have Indian girls almost stopped wearing sarees?

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What is it like to be a Christian in Iran?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Short story writers, what is your favorite character you've created and do they appear in more than one of your works?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why are people saying that Trump is fat when he is an athletic 6 foot 3 and 215 pounds?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?